For a long time I had a problem with accepting my appearance. I couldn’t shake the fact that I didn’t look good enough forever. See I’m a PK (pastor ‘s kid) and back in the day tradition meant everything to the church. So to make a long story short…I wore skirts all the time. So that alone didn’t help with me trying to accept my self and my appearance. Even when our church began to changed for the better and we started to wear pants, I still couldn’t shake that feeling.I always felt like I needed to look a certain way or do a certain thing to fit in. I was so concern on the wrong things, like my appearance instead of the important things like school and loving myself first. Once I started doing that I began to accept myself for who God made me. And as I did that I was able to open up and let someone else love me for who I really am flaws and all. He loves me for me ,Chelsie OlIvia Gardner for the way God made me to the name my mom gave me he loves it all. And to me that is more important than just your appearance, its not your life. So start living it by accepting that God did not make a mistake when he decide to give you life. Your on this world for a purpose but in order to discover that purpose you must embraced who God made you. Your appearance doesn’t make you,you make your appearance.